This post is inspired by a bad scenario experience yesterday.
Order does not suck, you do. If you spent less time complaining and more time playing, we may actually have a chance in this fight.
Coordination wins. This is just a fact of life and WAR. Sometimes you will end up fighting against a group or two of coordinated people and will get trounced. This does not mean your team sucks, or your side sucks or your class sucks. Sometimes you just lose, deal with it.
Stop saying Order needs more healers. You are only allowed to say this if you are a healer. If you are not a healing class, go roll one! Oh, you don't want to? If that is the case, be quiet, you have no right to complain about it.
Take some initiative. Much like real life, if you sit back and wait for things to happen for you, you will have a rough experience. Start a guild to better coordinate so you can win the scenarios. Go roll that healer. Start the warband to go get your keeps back. The game is what you make of it, so spend more time doing and less time complaining.
Any others to add?